by Marna Goldstein
Skinny people intrigue everyone. What has it taken them to get that figure, or is it simply the result of lucky jeans? Er, I mean genes People wonder if the skinny just got lucky or if they have to work really hard to stay thin.
Well, yes, and no
Those who are really thin likely work really hard to stay thin. These are the folks who watch every single calorie that crosses their hips and eat rabbit food with no dressing.
On the other hand there are other thin individuals who make thin look easy.
Those that are naturally thin have many character traits in common to maintain their svelte figures. Here are seven secrets that I found after interviewing hundreds of naturally thin people over the course of 14 years. See if you can identify with any of them. See where you could make some natural shifts easily so that you can be a naturally thin person too.
1. Thin is the thinking of the day with thin people. They KNOW they will be thin forever. They never talk about being fat, or not having enough to eat. They tell themselves thin stuff and their reaction to circumstances is different. They don’t use food to placate themselves if something unpleasant happens or go on an eating binge when procrastinating. They don’t see food as anything more than as fuel for their bodies. They may enjoy it, but that is all there is to it.
2. Thin people don’t diet. True Fact. Dieting would never enter the thoughts of these naturally thin adults. You ask Why?, because they have never had to and have never thought of themselves as anything but thin. If during my research I asked a thin person if they were concerned about becoming heavy and their response invariably was No! When I pressed them, they said, because I’ve never been overweight.
3. Naturally thin people don’t confuse food with emotions. If they are sad, they call a friend or cry. When angry, they get some physical exercise or take it out on their pillow. They don’t mix eating with emotions as it just doesn’t make sense to do so. They only think of food when they become hungry. No other time, if they are emotionally stressed, they deal with their emotions, and not by eating. The thin group always deals with emotions in an emotional way.
4. The naturally thin can be social without eating. If the thin are invited to a bbq and they aren’t hungry, they have no problem standing around not eating. If and when they get hungry, they will gladly grab a dog or burger, but not until then. They go to a bbq to enjoy the company of friends and family. Grazing for the simple act of grazing is not an option.
5. The naturally thin eat foods they love. It would never make sense for them to eat celery sticks if they weren’t craving celery. They eat foods that they crave when they are hungry. They never go into deprivation mode by saying no, I can’t have that. They know that they are entitled to eat whatever they want when they are hungry. No is not an option unless of course there is an allergy or sensitivity to certain foods.
6. Mindless eating to numb the senses is something thin people don’t do. They are always conscious of the effect that what they are eating has on their bodies. You would never find them at the theater with their hand in the bottom of an almost empty popcorn bucket wondering if they ate it all. Thin people know how hungry they are before they sit down to a meal and how full they are while or after they finish eating.. They are ignorant about diets, calories and other aspects of food.
7. Naturally thin people almost never overeat. There is nothing worse to this group of thin individuals, than overeating. They hate how it sinks their energy level and forces their bellies to protrude. Yuck! This extreme discomfort keeps them from overeating and reinforces this negative feeling. The average naturally thin person only overeats two percent of the time.
Can you tell the difference in their mindset and actions?
You’ve learned that it’s not your genetics or luck; its not the quality or types of food that determines whether these thin individuals gain weight. Its about how they eat, when they eat, their connection with their body and the freedom to choose all types of foods.
So, now that you know all this, if you are considering losing weight, there is no time like the present and dieting isn’t necessary as the naturally thin don’t.
About the Author:
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